I AM LOVE. I SPEAK LOVE. I AM LOVE. I SPEAK LOVE TO MYSELF. I AM LOVE. I SPEAK LOVE TO OTHERS.
The first step to healing self love issues is to stop talking negatively to yourself about yourself. Stop in the moment when you become aware of it. Transform your negative self talk to loving and positive self talk. I also include a quick forgiveness at times whenever I fInd myself talking negative. Again I am going to use the examples of Jealousy and Comparison but you can replace these issues with any other issues that you are experiencing. Whenever you feel jealous and have the need to compare yourself with others, say the following. Talk to yourself like you are talking to a child with your greatest love. Be kind to yourself. Sooth yourself.
"I offer myself my greatest love. I know why I feel jealous and I know why I feel the need to compare myself to others (Name) because I have not loved myself enough. Now, I can finally heal. I love myself. I love myself. I love myself. I am Love. I am Love. I am Love. Because I am in love with myself, I can't help loving others. I am filled with love. I love myself. I love others. There is no need of these negative emotions and thoughts anymore. I am in love with myself."
The jealousy and the comparison feelings started to shift for me almost instantly when I said these words to myself. These words just flowed out of my mouth. I am so happy to say that I have not felt jealous after that. It was then I realized that jealousy is a self love issue. Rather than beating yourself over being negative with any issue, please give yourself love. There is lack of love in order for any negative emotion or thoughts to exist. Yes, everything is Karma but in this lifetime the negative emotions were triggered by someone or something. The circumstances are created by your karma for the lesson to come up but then what do you do with it? You can continue experiencing negativity or you can learn to transform it. You have felt rejected sometime in your life to have certain negative emotions or thoughts. You have felt less than others and wished to be someone else to be accepted. Your mind has learned certain way of being in this lifetime from your experiences so you just have to talk to your mind again and give your greatest love. If you keep being hard on yourself for these negativities you feel, the issue won't heal. Master Sha says 'Love melts all blockages'. This is it. You need your own love too. If for some reason you cannot shift or transform on your own, then get a healing service. Do a practice to shift this from Master Sha's book. Please seek help from any of the Divine Channels.
Please learn from my mistakes. I was really really hard on myself this lifetime. If you keep being hard on yourself then you can create negative karma and deeper lessons. Some people in some cultures punish themselves for their sins by depriving themselves from food and other things. I have seen a group of people from a specific culture that does self harm to repent for their sins. This will just create deeper lessons which might take a long time to heal. I received a message from heaven that I was losing virtue by being too hard on myself. It is same as when you love others, you create good virtue. When you love yourself, you also gain virtue. When you are kind to yourself and others, it is a very good service. Always remember that you are also God's child. You come in the all souls too. When the saints said love everyone, I am pretty sure they also meant yourself.
Today, I will like to offer a healing blessings to everyone who posts a comment on this blog for having loving speech for the self. I love you all so much. Thank you for being part of my soul journey.

I love you master Avninder. I love myself too. I have often encouraged others to love themselves as they love a child. I am working very hard to love and accept myself. To not feel jealousy of others. I am grateful for any blessing that may help me to achieve this. With love and gratitude. B
ReplyDeleteThank you Master Avninder ! Your post radiates you're Tao Ai & unconditional service. I am going to read this often. As your positive affirmations carry great power, wisdom, & love that not only melt my Shen Qi Jing blockages but of all the readers Shen Qi Jing blockages, we are all very blessed. With all of my 10 Da's CBDs CBDs CBDs thank you thank you thank you. I am forever grateful thank you Master Avninder Love you Master Avninder <3 thanks you Master Sha, Love you Master Sha CBDs CBDs CBDs
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ReplyDeleteThank you dearest Master Avninder, i am happy and grateful to go this path of Selfhealing and Selflove with you and everyone, DA AI to you, Da Gan En Christine
ReplyDeleteDa Ai, beloved Master Avenider and all souls who found this blog... How very blessed we are, to be connected and enabled to give and receive here and everywhere in the net... I LOVE YOU, YOU LOVE ME, I LOVE ME, YOU LOVE YOURSELF....together we are nothing but LOVE, LOVE, LOVE. tytyty
ReplyDeleteThank you beloved Master Avninder for this teaching and for your love. I love you. I love myself. We are one. Cbd cbd cbd. With Da Ai....
ReplyDeleteThank you beloved Master Avninder for this teaching and for your love. I love you. I love myself. We are one. Cbd cbd cbd. With Da Ai....
ReplyDeleteI am love. I am purifying everyday. I forgive myself for my mistakes. I no longer need to be hard on myself. I am changing. I am healing. I am growing. I am humble. I am grateful. I am loving. I am loved by Heaven. I am love.
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I am love. I am purifying everyday. I forgive myself for my mistakes. I no longer need to be hard on myself. I am changing. I am healing. I am growing. I am humble. I am grateful. I am loving. I am loved by Heaven. I am love.
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Thank you Master Avninder, this post moves me deeply. I also have a lot of negative self-talk and this is indeed enhancing my self-love and self-esteem issues. It only takes one book from Master Sha to transform these issues. It also takes courage and honesty to say to ourselves, when we say something negative about ourselves: 'It has been enough now. You ARE lovable, you are beautiful. There is no need to break yourself down this way. You are such a beautiful soul. You deserve love. The entire universe loves you beyond words'.
ReplyDeleteOften we realize when we are talking negatively about ourselves yet believe so much in this story that we refuse to look past it. At least, this is what happens to me. I place the intention right now to always treat myself well, and to be a loving mother to myself. Love you love you love you Thank you thank you thank you
Dearest Everyone, Thank you all for your heart felt sharing. Please receive a healing blessing for developing loving speech for the self as appropriate. Thank you for allowing me to serve you. I love you so much.
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